Dreams -
Spirit Contact with the Deceased
Dreams from Real Life
with Interpretation and Analysis (1)
You are closest to the spiritual world when you are asleep
because your mind is free from the concerns of waking life.
There you drift to the boundary where the spiritual and
physical worlds meet; a place called the veil. It is from here
that your loving deceased friends and relatives can reach out
to you through a dream just once or many times through vivid
appearances that can even include confirming events that take
place when you are awake. Don't Hang On to
Me! Dream: I am lying in bed sleeping. My
husband is next to me. I feel someone is watching me sleep,
and I open my eyes to see my father standing over me by the
side of the bed. I say, "Daddy" but cannot move any part of my
body to reach him. I begin to feel afraid and just then my
father falls across me and as he does he disintegrates into
dust and is gone. I become terrified and wake up. Marilyn.
Dreamer's Background: My father passed away suddenly a
few months ago. I had a hard time dealing with it and I miss
him a lot. I had dreams of him and we would talk to one
another about little things, nothing special. I would always
feel happy and upbeat the next day. Interpretation:
When we lose someone we love and have difficulty dealing with
it, we create a lot of stress and emotional chaos deep within
ourselves. The deceased loved one may appear in a dream or a
vivid encounter called a "visit". The difference lies in how
vivid and unforgettable the dream was. Many dreams where the
deceased appear are forgotten over time, but genuine "visits"
are indelibly implanted in our memory and every detail can be
recalled like an old movie for the rest of our lives. In
your case, you were probably becoming dependant upon Daddy to
keep in touch and soothe your grieving heart. You were not
willing to let go because you were not ready to do so. After a
while when you are sufficiently assured that he still exists
in the spiritual form, it becomes time for the weaning
process. That is why you had a lucid dream where you were
awake while asleep and saw your dad. When he fell on you and
disintegrated into dust, causing you to become frightened. The
message was that you should now accept his passing into spirit
and not become dependant upon visits from him. There was no
harm intended, just a loving jolt to get you back into your
physical life. Marbus | 
